“Therefore we must give the more earnest heed to the things we have heard, lest we drift away.” – Hebrews 2:1
Clinging to something sometimes proves how much value it has for a person but sometimes it also proves how much a person has been stagnant about an event or another person. It makes it harder for a person to move on and forget what was. It makes it harder for him to take another step and create a new life from it.
There are times that we thought we are moving forward; experiencing new things from different time of our lives. But sometimes it is just a facade that makes us believe that we are. Even if the truth is, we are NOT. We just continue going on a circular path.
We thought we’ve seen new things but it was just the same things we saw before. We just didn’t realize since we are not paying attention. We are too full of ourselves and we neglect our environment and THE MOST IMPORTANT LESSON we need to learn.
We’ve taken for granted so many things. Live a carefree life when in fact you/we are not used to it. We tried to adapt to changes.
But the question is:
ARE YOU HAPPY?
ARE YOU SATISFIED?
IS THIS THE REAL YOU?
IS IT JUST A MASK THAT HIDES YOUR “TRUE SELF”?
You’ll going to ask: WOULD SOMEONE GONNA LOVE ME IF I AM JUST A FAKE?
Yeah, it is indeed true that we change because it is NEEDED.
We need it to SURVIVE and if we don’t we’ll be LEFT BEHIND, FORGOTTEN, and SOMETIMES MOCKED. We will be REJECTED!
Nobody want such cruel thing to happen in their lives. Nobody wants to experience and feel it. It is TOO PAINFUL. A person is hurt deeply. His or her heart started to crumble along with his personality.
It may implied that there is something wrong about him or her that makes him or her unsettled and uncomfortable. Sooner, it will lead to LONELINESS if not mitigated. Then, you will find yourself ALONE.
It is a sad fate that everyone can end up to. It is a sad fate for those people who are ignorant to deal with it properly.